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I was stoked when I saw this book on NetGalley, a feminist book about how important female friendships are? It was right up my alley. Unfortunately, I ended up being somewhat disappointed by the content. Overall, the book is well-written and makes a lot of important points. But these points are surrounded by a meandering narrative that ultimately seemed without purpose.

There were also a couple of points made that I didn’t agree with. First and foremost was the idea that a woman could not have a man as a best friend, “it just doesn’t work that way.” I disagree wholeheartedly. While I see where the author is coming from, I have several male best friends who I’m just as close to as my non-male best friends. There’s nothing I don’t feel comfortable sharing with them, and while they may not have gone through all the same experiences as me, they’re still my best friends.

The majority of the book is anecdotal, with references to pop culture. There’s a bit of historical research mixed in and very little, if any, current research. It’s the author talking about her friendships with women, and interviewing other women about their friendships. All these stories seem to come from a very limited subset of women — upper-middle class straight women. At least, that was the vibe I got. I didn’t mark down details about every single woman she interviewed, but this seemed to be the pattern I saw.

There were a few other things that gave me some serious “yikes” vibes. The author made jokes about strokes, and put in jokes about stalking quotes from an interviewee. There was also one line that really irritated me. The author is talking about a pair of best friends, one straight and one gay. She shared that the friends would go to gay bars together, which is fine, but that “Susanna liked being the only straight girl.” Being queer myself, I’m pretty sick of straight women co-opting gay spaces as their own and I found this inclusion completely unnecessary.

Additionally, the author shared that she didn’t really care about feminism at all until Trump was elected. I think this goes to show the kind of privilege she has lived with, and that she isn’t really qualified to speak for women at large. I was surprised that she even admitted to this, but I think that just means that she doesn’t see any issue with it.

I will note again that I am reading an unfinished copy, so it would be interesting to know if any of these things were left out of the final copy.

Overall, Text Me When You Get Home was an enjoyable read. It was nice reading about relationships between women, but I didn’t feel like I was learning anything. I would be interested in seeing a book written about relationships between women that goes more in depth than this one, and that discusses women from different backgrounds. I won’t tell anyone not to read this book, but I think it’s good to go into it not expecting it to be a gamechanger.


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Text Me When You Get Home The Evolution and Triumph of Modern Female Friendship Kayleen Schaefer 9781101986141 Books Reviews

The product came in great condition. The book was lack luster it wasn't very in depth. It had good ideas but the author didn't think them out too much.
Insight into female relationships but often felt like reading a TV guide or magazine article about women in sitcoms and movies.
It’s a must read for everyone. It’s fun but also analyzes deeply the dynamics of female friendships. Female friendships are so important and must be cultivated. They must be shown the same importance as any relationship.
Boy did I hate this book. It's like a mean girl wrote about how great she is and then got someone to publish it. Absolute garbarge. Not interesting, poorly written, dreary read.
Reading this story of different friend, friend groups makes me appreciate and love every one of my girlfriends to tell them how smart, fun, inspiring they are to me. Thank you, Kayleen, for writing this book and sharing it with the world!
For a book about female friendships it sure does spend a ridiculous amount of time talking about men. I was looking for a heartwarming pick-me-up while I'm feeling far away from all my closest friends but instead I found 100+ pages of how so many early friendships are super fake and then a bunch of gush about how adult friends are the bestest thing ever with no nuanced look at the complexities that make these relationships as special as they are. I legitimately started to question if my friendship experiences were somehow super rare since I've had close female friends since middle school and none of those friendships have ever resembled the "normal," "typically" relationships she describes.
The introduction had potential, it went down hill from there.
The timing couldn’t be better for this book to be written. Although it doesn’t provide you with new revelations, per se, it’s fun as a woman to read a collection of facts and anecdotes that match your experiences and support a fact you already know that your girlfriends are your rock and a part of your family. I love how this book challenges the supposition that women are “catty” and takes a hard look at the bias that pervades so many female stereotypes. I read this for an all-female book club and we rejoiced thoroughly in its “feel good” message and all of us walked away from this novel texting our BFFs around the world to let them know we love them, need them, and can’t live without them!
I was stoked when I saw this book on NetGalley, a feminist book about how important female friendships are? It was right up my alley. Unfortunately, I ended up being somewhat disappointed by the content. Overall, the book is well-written and makes a lot of important points. But these points are surrounded by a meandering narrative that ultimately seemed without purpose.

There were also a couple of points made that I didn’t agree with. First and foremost was the idea that a woman could not have a man as a best friend, “it just doesn’t work that way.” I disagree wholeheartedly. While I see where the author is coming from, I have several male best friends who I’m just as close to as my non-male best friends. There’s nothing I don’t feel comfortable sharing with them, and while they may not have gone through all the same experiences as me, they’re still my best friends.

The majority of the book is anecdotal, with references to pop culture. There’s a bit of historical research mixed in and very little, if any, current research. It’s the author talking about her friendships with women, and interviewing other women about their friendships. All these stories seem to come from a very limited subset of women — upper-middle class straight women. At least, that was the vibe I got. I didn’t mark down details about every single woman she interviewed, but this seemed to be the pattern I saw.

There were a few other things that gave me some serious “yikes” vibes. The author made jokes about strokes, and put in jokes about stalking quotes from an interviewee. There was also one line that really irritated me. The author is talking about a pair of best friends, one straight and one gay. She shared that the friends would go to gay bars together, which is fine, but that “Susanna liked being the only straight girl.” Being queer myself, I’m pretty sick of straight women co-opting gay spaces as their own and I found this inclusion completely unnecessary.

Additionally, the author shared that she didn’t really care about feminism at all until Trump was elected. I think this goes to show the kind of privilege she has lived with, and that she isn’t really qualified to speak for women at large. I was surprised that she even admitted to this, but I think that just means that she doesn’t see any issue with it.

I will note again that I am reading an unfinished copy, so it would be interesting to know if any of these things were left out of the final copy.

Overall, Text Me When You Get Home was an enjoyable read. It was nice reading about relationships between women, but I didn’t feel like I was learning anything. I would be interested in seeing a book written about relationships between women that goes more in depth than this one, and that discusses women from different backgrounds. I won’t tell anyone not to read this book, but I think it’s good to go into it not expecting it to be a gamechanger.